So, you made your choice and you want to stay with her the whole life? You fell in love with her? The only question here is whether she feels the same. How can you tell if the woman is also in love with you? In this article, we will explore signs and body language that women use to let their men know these things. Whether she is totally into you or believes she can do better, find out it to plan your next course of action. Here are some helpful tips.
She looks out for you
When a woman is very attracted to a man, she goes out of her way to show that she cares and wants to ensure his well-being. Part of this is instinctual, forming tight bonds with someone naturally results in a mutual obligation to ensure each other’s safety and comfort. On the other hand, it is a sign of a real strong relationship, one in which two people really value each other’s company.
She gets angry or controls all small things
A woman might seem needy when she constantly makes a big deal over what a guy might think of as non-important issues, but what she’s really doing is displaying an interest in a man’s life, and striving to improve that existence. By making suggestions and communicating her disapproval of certain habits or decisions in a man’s life, she is proving that she is committed to making a difference and wants to play a large role in “her man’s” daily activities.
Body language is perhaps the most important category. The way a woman sits, stands, and moves while you’re around can be the biggest giveaway to what she’s thinking. Next time you’re at the bar chatting with that cute girl you’ve seen a few times, look for these hints that she’s into you:
She leans in towards you
Her legs are not crossed
She smiles as soon as you start talking with her
She hugs you randomly
She “accidentally” bumps into you
She finds excuses to touch you
She turns her torso/hips towards you
She bites or touches her lips
She gets really dressed up when she knows she will see you and then acts surprised if you comment on her appearance.
She plays with her hair while talking with you.
Once that great (hopefully) time on a date with Russian woman is over and you return home there are some points for you to consider. Of course you both probably need some time to take rest (especially if the meeting was rather dynamic) but how and when she will contact you afterwards does also mean a lot. Time and effort is the main things people can actually give you and if your lady treats you well at this point you may consider yourself a lucky fellow and be sure that girl’ on the same track you’re at.
Pay attention to whether she randomly hugs you. This is especially significant if her random hugs are reserved mostly for you. Hugs are a friendly, affectionate way of getting closer to you and touching you without it necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting skills. Return the hug if you like her back, or gently refuse her hug if you don’t want her to get the wrong impression.
She laughs at your jokes
When she likes you, she will see pretty much everything you do in a positive light. To her, even a bad joke is funny when it’s told by you. If it’s really terrible, she might groan and roll her eyes, but she’ll still smile and appear to have enjoyed the fact that you are joking with her. The reason for this is simple. Playful conversation is form of courtship. If you are trying to make her laugh, that’s a signal that you probably like her. Laughing at your jokes is her subconscious reply saying, “I like you, too.”
Her immediate reaction shows interest
Whenever you talk to her, pay attention to the very first way she reacts to you. Girls are very good at hiding emotions, especially if they are shy, nervous or feeling a little worried about being rejected. However, if she likes you, she’ll be dying for you to talk to her. She won’t be able to hide her true feelings in that moment when her wish comes true.
She asks for your help
If a girl is interested, she will go out of her way to seek your help and advice. Some examples of this are having you carry something for her, asking you for assistance with a problem or project, or even her pretending that she can’t do something so you’ll help her.
She does this because she wants your attention and focus, and to have you spend time especially with her. It gives her an excuse to open up lines of communication with you.
She will smile, and seem momentarily excited and interested. After that, she will probably be unreadable. She might seem forward or alternatively, she may be flustered. She might look you directly in the eyes, or she might not be able to look properly at you. She might talk non-stop, or she may go quiet. None of this matters… it’s that initial moment that will give her away.